Keeping the relationship spark alive can be a lot of work. The mundane details of everyday life can often mean romance is put on the back burner. Sometimes it can seem that you and your spouse have grown apart.
But did you know that everyone has a love language? If fact, there are 5 love languages and everyone has one that they are dominant in. By knowing not only your love language but also your spouse’s it can help you connect — or even reconnect.
Words of Affirmation
This is more than just saying “I love you.” It is about telling your partner that you appreciate them, are proud of them, or even saying that they look nice. It is taking the extra time to notice the little things and pointing them out.
Acts of Service
Acts of service involve doing things to make life easier for or to help out your spouse. This might involve taking out the garbage, washing the dishes, or even picking up the children’s toys.
Quality Time
The chaos of life can often keep us from spending time with our loved ones. Instead of being on the run all the time, take time to talk to each other. Spend time watching a movie or have a date night together.
Gifts
It doesn’t have to be expensive, but even things such as a handmade gift or a car is a way to show your love. Remember that it isn’t the cost of the gift, but the thought and effort that goes into it.
Physical Touch
There are a wide range of things that can be a part of physical touch. For some people this may be hugs or cuddling. For other people this might be kissing or holding hands.
No matter whether your dominant love language is physical touch, physical intimacy is important in all relationships. The problem is that sometimes physical intimacy can be difficult for some people. One way to enhance your relationship in the bedroom department is with the Fiera. Fiera is designed for “Before-Play” and is used for several minutes before sex to help enhance arousal and interest in sex. Additionally, you can sign up for the Relationship Refresh newsletter which includes 10 daily tips with ideas to respark your relationship intimacy.
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